There is an inverse relationship between how many partners you have and how special they make you feel.
If you sleep with only a handful of guys, you can invest time and energy into making each one mean something. Even if they didn’t last, they had meaning, and looking back on them will make you…
Great advice. I have a lot of young gay followers and I think that this is excellent.
I think this is good advice for anyone… be they gay men, lesbian women, straight men/women, bisexual, polyamorous, trans, anything. The more sexual partners and the more relationships you have, the more each of them as individuals fade into a kind of blended oblivion… Quantity doesn’t beat quality, I guess.
Now me? I have never had a good, positive, healthy, etc. romantic relationship at all. But the number of sucky ones I have had sure made each successive sucky one even more suckful. I don’t even want to try anymore.
